When You Stop Thinking…

I stopped “talking” to this guy a little over a week ago and since I’ve pretty much stopped looking for a guy to just appear and click.  It’s funny how easy it is to just stop thinking about men and relationships and dating when you are committed to just being you.  I’m not worried about what guys I might see out or at the grocery store, I don’t think of “maybe this will happen…” scenarios before bed.  I just– live.

It’s funny how when we are talking to a guy or thinking about finding one, that’s all that consumes so many of our thoughts. Then you stop and it all becomes clear– it’s about you and your life, not the guy.  He’ll fit in where he’s supposed to.

I encourage you all to take some time and just stop thinking.


3 thoughts on “When You Stop Thinking…

  1. Hello there! This blog post could not be written much better!
    Reading through this post reminds me of my previous roommate!
    He continually kept talking about this. I’ll send this article to him. Pretty sure he’s going to have a
    great read. I appreciate you for sharing!

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