Wow. I’ve sat here freaking out over the thoughts, actions, texts of a guy for weeks– each time after a text or a hangout or a phone call breathing a sigh of relief that things went okay, only to begin freaking out that I said the wrong thing or replied to quickly or broke one of the many rules of dating that I never understood to begin with. Why do we do this to ourselves?
I admit, I am one of the many who freak out and over think, but where’s the limit? How long is it appropriate to worry and overthink? I feel like at some point you’ve just got to trust and let the cards land as they may.
Stop worrying about what you say or how you say it– as long as it’s the truth– it was the right thing to say at the right time. Stop worrying and just enjoy the feelings that go with life!