Hmmm… what about when it’s them?

We’ve all read the lists and what not to do in a relationship and what to let go of before starting a new one.  But what do you do when the person you are starting a relationship hasn’t paid the same attention?  Can you make it work or are you barking up a tree whose branches are already full?

They say don’t bring past baggage into a new relationship– but yet so many do.  They say don’t compare your current partner to the mistakes your past partner  made– but what do you do when you are the one being judged against the past?

It’s one thing when you have to drop your baggage to have a good start with someone new… but how do you go about things when the person you are trying to make a good start with doesn’t realize they aren’t letting go of theirs?

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