Do Relationships Get Shot Like An Arrow?

They say “An arrow can be shot only by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it’s going to launch you into something great.”  Lately, I’ve been wondering if that’s true of relationships too– maybe that’s where the cupid myth came from?

When you are in the new stages of a relationship and dating– there’s always a slight pull back period.  From my experience, that pull back period either flings you forward or pulls you back too far and the arrow falls to the ground.

It makes me wonder, how do you make sure your relationship arrow goes forward instead of falling to the ground?